Brain Rules (John Medina, 2008) 8.0/10
How We Decide (Jonah Lehrer, 2009) 8.2/10
How The Mighty Fall (Jim Collins, 2009) 6.7/10
World Wide Rave (David Meerman Scott, 2009) 7.2/10
The Element (Sir Ken Robinson, 2009) 8.2/10
Jeff Immelt and the New GE Way (David Magee, 2009) 5.0/10
The Talent Code (Daniel Coyle, 2009) 6.5/10
Influence: The Psychology of Persuasion (Robert B. Cialdini, 2007) 7.0/10
The Ten Commandments for Business Failure (Donald R. Keough, 2008) 7.3/10
The Little Book of Bull Moves in Bear Markets (Peter D. Schiff, 2008) 5.2/10
The Brand Bubble (John Gerzema and Ed Lebar, 2008) 6.0/10
A Sense Of Urgency (John P. Kotter, 2008) 6.5/10
Who (Geoff Smart and Randy Street, 2008) 6.8/10
Reality Check (Guy Kawasaki, 2008) 7.2/10
Tribes (Seth Godin, 2008) 4.7/10
Talent (Edward E. Lawler III, 2008) 5.8/10
Business Stripped Bare (Richard Branson, 2008) 7.8/10
Call Me Ted (Ted Turner with Bill Burke, 2008)
Outliers (Malcolm Gladwell, 2008) 6.0/10
Winning (Jack Welch with Suzy Welch, 2005) 8.0/10
Tuned In (Craig Stull, Phil Myers & David Meerman Scott, 2008) 7.2/10
Inside Steve's Brain (Leander Kahney, 2008) 6.0/10
The Answer (John Assaraf & Murray Smith, 2008) 7.2/10
Six Disciplines Execution Revolution (Gary Harpst, 2008) 4.0/10
The Future of Management (Gary Hamel and Bill Breen, 2008) 7.3/10
Meatball Sundae (Seth Godin, 2007) 7.0/10
“Just because yes is simple and obtainable, we shouldn’t be fooled into believing that anyone can easily secure it from others”
“Yes!; 50 Scientifically Proven Ways to Be Persuasive” by Noah J. Goldstein, Steve J. Martin, and Robert B. Cialdini
The title says it all really; the book is filled with 50 ways (I’d rather say “examples”) of persuasion. They are (for examples);
“What one word can you start using today to increase your persuasiveness by more than fifty percent?”
“Which item of stationery can dramatically increase people’s responses to your requests?”
SPOILER ALERT!! (the answer to the two questions are; “because” and “Post-It notes”)
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I’m not going to list all 50 ways from the book; I’ll go right to my Six Elements Review that the ideal business book is “easy to read, distinct, practical, credible, insightful, and provides great reading experience”
Ease of Understanding: 8/10; the small book is separated into 50 chapters and each chapter takes less than 5-10 minutes so, it is easy to understand. However, the drawback of Yes! is its lack of structure; 50 ways are loosely tied (if at all) together.
Distinction: 8/10; it is undoubtedly a great compilation of persuasion techniques. The highlight is the word “50″; it is difficult to provide readers with 50 ways “persuasively” but Cialdini, Goldstein, and Martin could do it.
Practicality: 4/10; as interesting as those fifty ways are, I can say that it is very difficult (if possible at all) to implement any of them appropriately. Each situation in the book or in your lives is unique. It is more possible to successfully persuade others and look back to the techniques in the book and match them than the other way around.
Credibility: 6/10; the gook point is that every way is backed with good and, sometimes, amazing example(s). The bad point is, it might not be enough to use one example (or a couple of them) to describe the ways and claim that they are “scientifically proven”.
Insight: 5/10; I think 5 is fair because as you know that there are fifty ways! It is impossible to dig deep into every (any) way.
Reading Experience: 9/10; This is, by far, the most outstanding element of Yes!; this book is fun. Take this book with you along with another book and if you’re bored with the other book, take some times off and read Yes!; it is refreshing. I would compare the book to Aesop Fable not that they are childish and fictional but they are;
1. Concise and precise
2. Every story teaches you a valuable lesson
3. You mention it in a hindsight when something already happened! (”Oh, this situation is like the story of “The Hare and The Tortoise”… “I persuaded my friend and it was like the way no.XX from Cialdini’s book”!)
Overall: 6.7/10; I’d say “buy it”; it’s fun and won’t waste your time because you’ll learn many things from the book and you’ll find those examples and stories amazing. However, be careful when you try to do any of those ways; make sure you think of the other 49 ways first!
